As a part of the healing process and to begin to mend the rip in society caused by a death, funerals or memorial services are important steps. This is why funeral homes in Reading, PA have chosen it as a task to ensure this process is stress-free and seamless for you. Throughout the funeral planning process, your funeral director will answer all of your questions, share his or her expertise, and guide you through the process.

Key Takeaways:

• Make sure to discuss funeral plans with loved ones ahead of time to avoid financial troubles or disagreements down the line.
• Discuss various service planning aspects with your funeral director during your arrangement conference.
• Consider the location, time and day of the week, officiating minister, and format of the event when planning a funeral service.
• Prepare a list of who should be notified when your loved one passes away so your funeral director can provide them details about arrangements.



During your arrangement conference, you will discuss various service planning aspects.

What is the Appropriate Location?

After deciding about burial or cremation for your loved one, it is time to plan how you would like the service to be conducted. A memorial service is a fitting tribute to someone you loved, and it should illustrate how deeply you cared about them.

The family's church or the funeral home's chapel is used in the traditional funeral service. However, the service can be held almost anywhere these days if that is meaningful for you.

Do you think your loved one would prefer a special place to say their final goodbyes? You can stage service on the 18th hole of a golf course. The service may take place on the beach or at a park. Essentially, there are no restrictions.

The funeral director is, of course, the best resource for helping you choose the perfect location and designing a meaningful service.

Is There a Best Time and Day of the Week?

Answers to this question are determined by where you are and the schedule of those you intend to attend. After the services, we have arranged for evening services and dinner gatherings at local restaurants. There have also been outdoor morning services held in the sun and open-air during the afternoon hours. You may want to choose an indoor service if you are concerned about the weather, and the day/time issue can be resolved by reviewing our facility's schedule.

Who Will Be the Officiating Minister?

Alternatively, you may hire a certified celebrant to officiate the service. Virtually anyone comfortable speaking in public can serve as your master of ceremonies. Still, we encourage you to select someone who cares deeply about guiding attendees throughout the ceremony. Though you are free to choose anyone, we recommend selecting someone you trust and know well.

There are other decisions to consider apart from the basic ones listed above. These decisions are much more intimate and will shape how the funeral service will be. For instance, there is a need to decide if the service will be open-ended or if the guests will be told the opening and closing times. There is also a need to determine the types of flowers present at the ceremony. Other things to consider include the type of music, the format of the funeral, the kind of people to be invited, the decision on whether there will be a eulogy, etc.

Keeping Everyone Informed

Your funeral director will be greatly assisted if you prepare a list of who should be notified when your loved one passes away. The details of the service arrangements and ways to notify them of the death are available to you. We will be happy to assist you with this important (and often emotionally-draining) task. But, again, this can be discussed with your funeral director when you meet with them.

Funeral homes in Reading, PA are welcoming and understanding. However, you must assist them with the necessary information to make the day memorable.